Deciding on a care home for someone you love can feel like a huge step but it’s completely normal to feel a little anxious about it. You want to make sure they’ll be safe, comfortable, and most importantly, happy. The good news is that with a little guidance, the process can feel a lot less overwhelming.
Here are some friendly tips to help you along the way:
1. Pick the right location
Think about how close the home is to family and friends. The easier it is to visit, the more often you’ll pop in; whether it’s for a quick cup of tea, a stroll in the garden, or a family celebration. Staying connected really helps your loved one feel settled.
2. Notice the atmosphere
Every care home has its own “feel.” When you visit, take a moment to soak it in. Do the staff greet you with a smile? Do residents look relaxed and content? Does it feel warm and homely? Trust your instincts. If it feels welcoming to you, chances are it will to your loved one too.
3. Look at the lifestyle
Keeping busy and enjoying life makes all the difference. Ask about activities; whether that’s exercise sessions, arts and crafts, film nights, or just a cosy chat over cake. The key is variety, so your loved one can choose what makes them happiest each day.
4. Try the food
Food is more than just fuel. It’s comfort, joy, and routine. Ask about menus, and if you can, join for lunch. You’ll not only get a taste of the meals but also the dining atmosphere, which is often the heart of the home.
5. Make it personal
The best homes encourage residents to bring along their favourite belongings. These can include family photos, keepsakes, or even a favourite armchair. These little touches help turn a new space into a real home.
6. Meet the team
The people who provide the care are just as important as the building itself. Chat with the staff, ask about their experience, and notice how they interact with residents. A kind, caring team can make all the difference in your loved one’s day-to-day happiness.
7. Spend a day there
If possible, arrange a trial day. Many homes (including ours) love to welcome potential residents for a visit. It’s a chance to meet people, try the food, and see what a “normal” day feels like. It can take away so many worries and make the final decision feel easier.
A final thought
Choosing a care home is about finding the right fit; a place that feels safe, supportive, and full of life. Take your time, visit a few options, and go with your heart as well as your head.
At Samily Care, we believe a care home should feel like an extension of family, and we’re always here to chat, answer questions, and welcome you in for a visit whenever you’re ready.